How to Be the Change You Want to See in the World

Ghandi's famous words lead us to one of the mostsomething is wrong and needs to be changed. This is
powerful facts about human nature. To lead others,the first area to clear up when looking at
we must first lead ourselves. He believed that thisTransformational Leadership. If you do not have high
was a way to create the world we want to live in.moral and ethical values, coupled with integrity to
On a personal level, this can be linked to the wayback it up, others will see trough you. They may do
you see your world and how you want it to be. Youas you say, due to your authority, but they will
determine your perception of the world around you.ultimately not respect you.
If you are angry, chances are you will meet othersBy being the change you want to see, you show
who will reflect this, to wake you up to the way youyourself and others the way forward. When you are
are being.willing to behave in a way which you want others to
When we realize that you are in control of this, youbehave, you send them a message, giving them
have the power to make changes in your life that willpermission to do so too. If you have ever worn a
affect not only you, but others around you too. Youuniform of any kind, you know the sense of purpose
can see this when you are happy. The world seemsthat it gives, according to the group you are in. If
happy, you feel happy, and others around youyou are leading that group, and do not respect the
become happier. The impulses you pass onto othersuniform, others will begin to behave in the same way.
either affect them or infect them. The question isPersonal hypocrisy is one of the biggest areas to deal
which one will you be?with when working with Transformational Leadership.
When you decide to make a change in your life, itThis is also known as integrity or congruency. This
extends to many more areas that just that oneapplies to your mind, emotions and your body. If
specific change. By being healthier, you have moreyour mind is doing one thing and your body another,
energy, are more creative, become more acceptingchances are results your will be poor, if not
of others, have more vision for our lives and evendisastrous.
become more loving. If you break our integrity, byIt is far better to be singing from the same song
not keeping your word, for example, you probablysheet. If each instrument in an orchestra played its
feel rotten inside, and are not contributing to yourown tune or is even slightly out, the entire
growth and happiness. The change you make can beperformance comes across as jarring and unpleasant,
in two directions. One that takes you forward, thebut with the right guidance, the final result is a
other, back, and the one that wins is the one youmasterpiece.
focus on.Is your personal orchestra playing to the same music
When you lead others, they will evaluate yoursheet, or could you do with some adjustments?
integrity. Parents are easily aware of this. Do youBeing a Transformational Leader is about becoming
know the saying - "do as I say, not as I do" ? Howaware of what you are doing, and how you are
about "Monkey see, monkey do". Talk about personalbeing, and how that influences the world around you.
hypocrisy. No wonder we grow up feeling like